Our process

The law in England now requires all couples to demonstrate they have attempted to resolve separation disputes through mediation. Whilst a mediator cannot issue you your divorce, the mediation process will prepare you with all the necessary documentation to help you avoid the need to attend court and prevent against lengthy drawn out court hearings over issues such as child maintenance, financial settlements etc. At Ark Mediation we will work closely with you and the other party to ensure a quick, robust and amicable outcome.

MIAM - Initial Contact

Initial contact is made by either one or both parties wishing to pursue mediation. Once a session is setup, a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is conducted. In the MIAM we explain the process, clarify expectations and discuss the roles and responsibilities of participants. This session helps the mediator and all parties assess whether mediation is an appropriate route.

Mediation (including Shuttle Mediation)

The mediator brings all parties together in joint sessions where open and respectful communication is encouraged. During these sessions, participants have the opportunity to express their perspectives, interests and needs. The mediator facilitates the conversation, promotes understanding and helps identify areas of agreement and disagreement.

We recognise sometimes it is too difficult for individuals seeking mediation to participate in a joint session. Ark Mediation can provide shuttle mediation to overcome this.

Problem Solving and Negotiation

The mediator assists the parties in generating and evaluating possible solutions. They help participants explore different options, consider the consequences of their decisions and find creative ways to meet their interests and needs.

Agreement and Documentation

When the parties reach a mutually satisfactory agreement, the mediator assists in documenting the agreement in writing. The agreement may cover various aspects such as parenting plans, division of assets, financial arrangements and any other relevant matters.

Implementation and Follow Up

After the agreement is reached the parties may need to take steps to implement the agreed-upon terms. The mediator can provide guidance on the necessary actions and support the parties to address any challenges that may arise during the implementation process.

It's important to note that Family Mediation is a voluntary process and the mediator remains neutral throughout. The mediator does not make decisions for the parties but instead facilitates their communication and helps them find their own solutions. The goal is to promote understanding, improve communication and foster cooperative relationships within the family.