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Mediation for neurodiverse families

Neurodiverse family mediation adapts the process for families where a parent or child is autistic, has ADHD, dyslexia, sensory processing differences or another neurodivergent profile. Sessions are more structured and predictable, communication is adjusted to suit each person, and parenting plans are built around the child's specific needs.

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Why neurodiversity changes the conversation

Separation brings change, and change can be especially hard for neurodivergent children. A new routine, two homes, different rules and unexpected handovers can all cause distress. Arrangements that work for many families, such as alternating weekends or frequent swaps, may not work for a child who needs predictability.

It can also be hard for parents. If one or both of you are neurodivergent, a long, unstructured meeting may feel overwhelming, and important points can get lost.

How we adapt mediation

  • Structure and predictability. Clear agendas sent in advance, the same format each session, and no surprises.
  • Communication that suits you. Written summaries, visual tools, plain language, and time to process before deciding.
  • Sensory-aware sessions. Video from a familiar space, cameras off when needed, shorter sessions and regular breaks.
  • Shuttle option. If face-to-face discussion is too much, we keep you apart and carry proposals between you.
  • Child-focused planning. We help you think through routines, transitions, school, therapies and sensory needs in detail.

What a neurodiverse-aware parenting plan might include

  • Consistent routines and rules across both homes
  • How and when handovers happen, with preparation for the child
  • Visual timetables or calendars the child can follow
  • How you'll share information about school, EHCPs, therapies and medication
  • Plans for holidays, special occasions and other disruptions to routine
  • How you'll review the plan as your child's needs change

Every family is different. Tell us about your situation in a free 10-minute call and we'll explain how we can adapt mediation for you.

Frequently asked questions

Does my child need a diagnosis?

No. We adapt to the needs you describe, whether or not there is a formal diagnosis, and whether those needs are a child's or a parent's. Tell us what helps, such as routines, sensory needs or communication styles, and we plan around it.

Can a neurodivergent parent mediate?

Yes. Many of the same adjustments help parents: agendas in advance, clear written summaries, shorter sessions with breaks, and the option of shuttle mediation if face-to-face discussion is overwhelming. Just tell us what works for you.

Can my child take part?

Children aged 10 and over may be able to share their views through child-inclusive mediation, using communication methods that suit them, such as visual aids or written questions. Both parents and the child must agree first.

Do you work with therapists or other professionals?

Where it helps, and with your agreement, we can take into account input from professionals who already know your child, such as a therapist, SENCO or paediatrician. This helps arrangements reflect your child's real needs and routines.

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  2. A mediator calls you back at a time that suits you
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