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Understanding Child Maintenance: What It Covers, When It Ends, and How Direct Payments to Your Child Work

Updated: Nov 11


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Child maintenance can be a challenging subject, especially during or after separation.

Understanding Child Maintenance: What It Covers, When It Ends, and How Direct Payments to Your Child Work


Child maintenance can be a challenging subject, especially during or after separation. At Ark Mediation, we see how complex and emotional this topic can be, and we’re here to provide guidance on what child maintenance involves, when it stops, and whether it’s possible to pay it directly to your child.


What Does Child Maintenance Cover?


Child maintenance payments are intended to contribute toward the costs of raising a child when parents are separated. These payments, made by the non-resident parent, aim to ensure that children have access to a stable, supportive environment. Child maintenance typically covers:


Basic Living Expenses: Including food, clothing, and shelter.

Educational Costs: Such as books, stationery, and transport for school.

Healthcare Needs: Additional support for non-NHS medical expenses or prescriptions.

Housing and Utilities: Contribution to rent, mortgage payments, and essential utilities like water and electricity.


Ultimately, child maintenance helps to offset the financial strain on the resident parent, ensuring the child’s needs are met. For more details on child maintenance calculations, visit the UK government’s Child Maintenance Calculator.


When Does Child Maintenance Stop?


In the UK, child maintenance is usually required until the child turns 16 or 20 if they’re in full-time education (such as A-levels). However, there are specific circumstances where it might end earlier or extend, depending on the child’s needs and situation. Common reasons for ending child maintenance include:


• The child turns 16 and isn’t continuing education.

• The child reaches 20 if still in full-time secondary education.

• The child marries, starts working full-time, or joins an apprenticeship before the age of 20.


For further guidance, check the UK government’s page on When Child Maintenance Ends.


Can I Pay Child Maintenance Directly to My Child?


Some parents wonder if they can make maintenance payments directly to their child, particularly if the child is in their teens or young adulthood. In the UK, child maintenance is generally paid to the primary caregiver or resident parent to manage the child’s needs. However, direct payments to a child may be arranged under certain conditions:


1. If Both Parents Agree: With older children (such as those nearing 18), some parents arrange to make direct payments, but this typically requires mutual agreement.

2. If a Child Arrangement Order Specifies: A court order might specify payment arrangements, but this is rare.

3. If the Non-Resident Parent is the Sole Provider: In situations where the child is financially dependent on the non-resident parent directly, and both parents agree, payments can be made to the child.


It’s important to approach direct payments carefully, as they may complicate future arrangements. Speaking to a family mediator or legal advisor is recommended to ensure these payments are documented and managed fairly.


For official guidelines on paying child maintenance, you can refer to the UK government’s Child Maintenance Service.


Seeking Mediation for Child Maintenance Disputes


Discussions around child maintenance often bring up concerns and conflicts. Mediation can offer a constructive approach, providing both parties with a neutral space to reach an agreement. At Ark Mediation, we’re here to help you navigate these challenging conversations with a focus on what’s best for your child. Our expert mediators understand the intricacies of child maintenance and can help guide both parents toward fair, practical solutions.


Get Support Today


If you’re facing issues with child maintenance and want a positive way forward, Ark Mediation offers a free 10-minute consultation to help you understand your options. Call us on 0330 043 6360 to schedule your consultation and start building a pathway to a resolution.


Child maintenance can be complex, but with the right support, you can create a sustainable plan for your family’s future.

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